“RIGHT in the middle of my life, I realized that I wasn’t where I wanted to be. It was like I’d wandered off the right path into a very, very bad neighborhood. I don’t even know how I ended up so far off course. I felt like I’d been sleepwalking.” From “Finding your own North Star”.
It’s interesting, despite having conquered obstacles in the past, we suddenly find ourselves completely STUCK and unable to move beyond this challenge. It’s like something is blocking us from moving forward.
How do we reach this point?
The answer is “gradually”.
We look back and regret decisions we made earlier in life – what we studied, careers, jobs and relationships. We put up with people, bosses, jobs, life partners and situations for the sake of security, the hope that things will change, or we don’t even know why. We compromise what’s really important to us. We doubt ourselves, think we’re not good enough, unworthy and before we know it, feel lost, confused, and out of touch with who we are.
We then ask ourselves Is this it? Why am I here? Who am I? How did I become so lost? What’s my purpose? Where did I lose my confidence, joy and passion? Where did I lose ME? We just know there has to be more to life than this!
We have often been stuck in a rut for so long that it became our comfort zone. We doubt our ability to make a change and are numbed by the thought of consequences, risk, failure and loss. This has sadly been the reason for many people to stay stuck for months and even years.
“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending”. ~ Carl Bard
You can’t undo the past but you have a choice right now. To be brave enough to embrace change or stay stuck.
As impossible as it may sound, it can be done! Honestly, I would not have believed it if it wasn’t for my own story and going through the Life Transformation Program.
When I hired a life coach, I wasn’t sure if the coach would be able to help me. I was really at my lowest low, and desperate for change – I just wanted to be me again, to let go of the pain, move on and be happy.
What the Life Transformation Program will help you with:
- Tools and techniques to cope better with life and overcome obstacles
- Changing your mindset
- Getting back in touch with your values
- Discovering your life purpose
- Goal setting
- Adopting an alternative way to look at life, people and circumstances
- Letting go of negative emotions and limiting beliefs that hold you back
- Learning to love and acceptance yourself
- Mindfulness/conscious living
If reading this sparks hope and excitement (even some apprehension), I would like to invite you for a free 20-minute consultation. It’s really free, you don’t need to sign up, just come and see if this is the solution you are looking for!
Master Transformation Life Coach – Pretoria East
COACH ME TO GROW
- Duration: 16 hours (preferably 2 hours at a time once a week)
- Coaching can be done online or in-person.
- In-person coaching: Pretoria East (close to Garsfontein Hoërskool, Faerie Glen Hospital, Menlyn, Mooikloof and Woodhill)
- Languages: English or Afrikaans
- Ages: 18+
- Covid-19 preventative measures – Please remember your mask. You will be welcomed by me and a bottle of hand sanitizer. There is ample space to ensure social distancing, as well as a big Perspex screen.
When I started the programme I was feeling as though my life was meaningless. I was depressed and hopeless, unsure of my worth. I had no direction nor purpose and from session one I started to unload my depression. It was not easy as I was still full of doubt with questions like “will it work for me?” As day two came I started to understand, feel light. I started to feel happy, trust and gain awareness in my life. I could no longer wait for the next session. I felt love for myself for the first time. I trusted myself and the depression was gone. I am happy I believe in myself. I have no emotional baggage from my past anymore.
I gained so much more from this programme including the fact that I am now a sales consultant for Honey and I am excelling in it, something that without the programme I wouldn’t have done, because I lacked confidence towards my capabilities.
Now I see my life with a fresh, hopefull, purposeful future. I am in love with myself. My vocabulary has no word “doubt” about myself.
My coach, I love her. She was/is a gift from God. She saved my life. She understood me, she listened to me, she made me a soulfull person. She is humble, loving which she bring to you in every session. She became my friend spiritually and emotionally. I am greatful to my coach and the programme for bringing out my happiness. I am the great version of myself. I am living life to the full, life of intentions and no disappointment.
Enjoying and loving the journey.